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T-Group Practice & Seminar

Host: Justin Navetski

T-Group is a learning group. Your task is to learn about yourself and others through interaction. Leverage the group to learn about your impact. Try on new behaviors that you’d like to cultivate. Learn by doing. Keep your focus on what is happening now, and with those you are with.

Container & Facilitation

We will do a warm-up exercise in breakouts (2–3 people), and then T-Group for roughly an hour in breakouts (5–12 people). Assigned facilitators hold three essential tasks:

1

Safety

Track individual and group nervous systems. Notice signs of overwhelm, fight/flight, or collapse, and intervene to support regulation, consent, and psychological safety. You can ask for boundary support at any time.

2

Structural Process

Hold the container of the practice. Keep time, clarify instructions, name transitions, and maintain the structure so participants can focus on their experience.

3

Practice Integrity

Hold integrity to practice intentions. Model the practice itself. Orient to purpose, name when the group drifts, teach in the moment, and reconnect to present-moment awareness and impact (they may interrupt you).

The Boundary Challenge: Facilitators stay tuned to the perceived stress tolerance in the room, but they cannot give those boundaries to you. Boundaries are an important thing for you to practice yourself. Get out of your comfort zone, stay out of your alarm zone, and find your learning zone.

Two Ways to Participate

Experiential Practice

T-Group Practice

Warm-ups, here-and-now T-Group practice, and then a cooldown

Schedule: Every other Tuesday, 12:00 PM – 1:30 PM PT
(Optional 30-min continued debrief until 2:00 PM PT)
Dates:

Sept 8 (Opening), Sept 22, Oct 6, Oct 20, Nov 3, Nov 17, Dec 1

Session Flow (PT):
  • 12:05 PM Welcome & ground rules
  • 12:08 PM Warm-up exercise in breakouts (2–3 people)
  • 12:15 PM Facilitated T-Group breakouts (5–12 people)
  • 1:10 PM Debrief practice in breakouts
  • 1:25 PM Return for closing
  • 1:30 PM Goodbyes & optional extended debrief
  • 2:00 PM Zoom room closes
12:20 PM Late Cutoff: The room closes 20 minutes after start out of respect for group formation. Drop-ins welcome.
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Sensemaking & Discussion

T-Group Seminar

Sensemaking, real-world application, giving and getting help.

Schedule: Monthly on Wednesday, 10:00 AM – 11:00 AM PT
Dates:

Sept 9, Oct 7, Nov 4, Dec 2

Session Flow (PT):
  • 10:00 AM Welcome
  • 10:02 AM Check-ins: Why did you come?
  • 10:10 AM Group configurations & emergent activities
  • 10:50 AM Initiate check-outs
  • 11:00 AM Goodbyes
Emergent Agenda: Join anytime. Activity will be dictated by participant desires raised during check-in.
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New to the Dojo?

Before your first session, we ask all new participants to review our foundation materials so you can arrive ready to practice:

T-Group Practice Guidelines

We aspire to practice the following... We intentionally stay away from ...
Learning about ourselves alongside others Watching the group instead of being part of the group
Observing and revealing our inner experiences Staying in abstraction, theory, or retrospection instead of present experience
Speaking from the "I" Speaking for others or the group
Sharing our experiences of one another in the present moment Avoiding direct interpersonal feedback, referring to people indirectly or outside the room
Stretching out of our comfort zone into our learning zone Remaining in safety, familiarity, or performance
Holding and reflecting on our learning with care for one another Sharing personal details about another individual without their explicit consent

Resources

Frameworks, models, and 1-pagers to support your practice.

1. Behavioral Effectiveness

Ways to communicate more clearly and intentionally

Nonviolent Communication (NVC)

A four step processs of how to speak up for what's important to you

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Wallen Skills

Four behavioral skills for effectively navigating the Interpersonal Gap

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Wheel of Awareness

Tool for communicating clearly about the here & now

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

2. Interpersonal Navigation

Ways to make sense of the interpersonal communication process

Conflict Styles (Jay Hall, Thomas-Kilmann)

A model for thinking about different ways of how we might show up in conflict

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Interpersonal Gap

A model explaining why it can be so difficult to understand and be understood

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Wheel of Consent

A way to structure the ways in which we either ask for or give attention

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Feelings Chart

A list of feelings words and a way to think about how they can show up interpersonally

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

3. Learning Process

Ways to make sense of our own experiential learning process in T-Group

Johari Window

A possible goal in Relational Practices is to expand the Arena

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Zone of Proximal Development

A way to think about the experiential learning process

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Four Stages of Competence

A way to think about skill development in experiential learning process

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

4. Group Development

Ways to make sense of how the group might be developing

Basic Assumption Theory

Psychodynamic way to make sense of how groups are developing

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Element-B: Inclusion, Control, Openness

My favorite way to think about how groups are developing

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Tuckman Model

The most popular model on how groups are developing

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

5. Leadership

Ways to understand how to influence group direction

Yalom’s Four Functions

Group process behaviors on how to effectively influence a group

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

6. Sensemaking

Ways to understand how we arrive at conclusions or make sense of things

Ladder of Inference

A model that tracks how we move from data intake to action

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Elephant and Rider Theory

A theory about how much the unconscious mind has influence over our behavior

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

7. Self Narrative

Ways to make sense of ourselves and our patterns

Family of Origin Work

Surfaces early conditioning, implicit scripts, and relational roles that unconsciously recur inside current group dynamics.

View Website Overview

Personality Inventories (Big 5, Social Styles, Enneagram, DISC, StrengthsFinder, MBTI)

Take some personality inventories to start clueing into your patterns

View Website Article

8. Neurobehavior

Ways to understand how the brain can act in social encounters

System 1 & System 2 Thinking

Another way to think about Rider & Elephant model, understanding when and how to make effort

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Fight, Fawn, Freeze, Flight, Flop (Stress Responses)

Understand some ways that we unconsciously respond to stressful situations

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

1. Behavioral Effectiveness

Ways to communicate more clearly and intentionally

Nonviolent Communication (NVC)

A four step processs of how to speak up for what's important to you

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Wallen Skills

Four behavioral skills for effectively navigating the Interpersonal Gap

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Wheel of Awareness

Tool for communicating clearly about the here & now

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

2. Interpersonal Navigation

Ways to make sense of the interpersonal communication process

Conflict Styles (Jay Hall, Thomas-Kilmann)

A model for thinking about different ways of how we might show up in conflict

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Interpersonal Gap

A model explaining why it can be so difficult to understand and be understood

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Wheel of Consent

A way to structure the ways in which we either ask for or give attention

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Feelings Chart

A list of feelings words and a way to think about how they can show up interpersonally

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

3. Learning Process

Ways to make sense of our own experiential learning process in T-Group

Johari Window

A possible goal in Relational Practices is to expand the Arena

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Zone of Proximal Development

A way to think about the experiential learning process

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Four Stages of Competence

A way to think about skill development in experiential learning process

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

4. Group Development

Ways to make sense of how the group might be developing

Basic Assumption Theory

Psychodynamic way to make sense of how groups are developing

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Element-B: Inclusion, Control, Openness

My favorite way to think about how groups are developing

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Tuckman Model

The most popular model on how groups are developing

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

5. Leadership

Ways to understand how to influence group direction

Yalom’s Four Functions

Group process behaviors on how to effectively influence a group

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

6. Sensemaking

Ways to understand how we arrive at conclusions or make sense of things

Ladder of Inference

A model that tracks how we move from data intake to action

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Elephant and Rider Theory

A theory about how much the unconscious mind has influence over our behavior

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

7. Self Narrative

Ways to make sense of ourselves and our patterns

Family of Origin Work

Surfaces early conditioning, implicit scripts, and relational roles that unconsciously recur inside current group dynamics.

View Website Overview

Personality Inventories (Big 5, Social Styles, Enneagram, DISC, StrengthsFinder, MBTI)

Take some personality inventories to start clueing into your patterns

View Website Article

8. Neurobehavior

Ways to understand how the brain can act in social encounters

System 1 & System 2 Thinking

Another way to think about Rider & Elephant model, understanding when and how to make effort

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)

Fight, Fawn, Freeze, Flight, Flop (Stress Responses)

Understand some ways that we unconsciously respond to stressful situations

View / Download 1-Pager (PDF)